It's not my problem. It shouldn't be. I know this is sort of a "duh" statement, since the only person who can fix you is you.
It's in my nature, though. It's what I do. I'm a fixer. I'm trying not to be, and it's getting easier every day to just let things go.
I'm feeling good about this attitude change. I think it will get even easier as time passes until I'll look in the rearview mirror without recognition.